Girls and boys that are attracted to men: Do you find big, masculine, hairy, bear-type men attractive? I'm just curious.
I know the term "bear" is usually not used when talking about straight men, but I'm using it with both gay and straight men who fit the body type.
Society does not seem to like big, hairy men. A lot of naturally hairy men get much of their body hair removed, maybe keeping some of the hair on the forearms and lower legs.
I know that I've seen more than a few effeminate gay men in public with bears, but not all that many women with them. It doesn't seem as if most or even a few straight or bi women find big, hairy bears attractive. I hardly ever see these guys out and about with women, but nearly hairless guys are with women a lot. Maybe I'm just not looking hard enough. I've heard a lot of straight women say that too much body hair on a man is repulsive. I haven't heard that from gay guys, but maybe they are less picky?
So my question, for those people who are attracted to men, do you find bears attractive? |
| Personally, no. I don't care for the bear look. That said, just because I don't wanna instantly hop on and take a ride doesn't mean that they can't grow on me. |
Have you ever seen a big hairy rodent eat all of your cheese? IN OTHER WORDS....have you ever seen me ask a question in this section before.
I am a big hairy man and I always eat people's answer like they cheese. |
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Ok ladies... Big strong hairy men or skinny smooth guys? Here is the question... Do you prefer the big strong masculine man... The lumber jack type... ya know the kind that would remove another dudes teeth with his fist for messing with his woman... or the skinny metro-sexual mr. sensitive? I happen to it in the first category but I am just curious cause it seems to me that women have lost their lust for men and like a more feminine man. |
| I think I'd rather the big strong masculine man. I wouldn't want to go out with my husband to get our facial done. It would be weird to have a metro-sexual type husband. At least for me. Plus, if he's kinda hairy, I don't really care. As long as they keep me warm at night =) |
Why do woman love BIG HAIRY MAN CHEST MUSCULAR? i was just wonder why they like there MENS so BIG and SEXUALY BRAWNY with over the top HANDSOME MAN MUSCLE that PERTRUDES into the BIG MAN? |
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Is there a psychological explanation for why some gay guys like hairy men? I wondered if there was a psycological explanation about attraction to hairy men.
Some say that it has something related to guyhood experiences, but I don't know for sure.
I like big, hairy manly men, and I'm a smooth slim guy.
Thank you for your answers.
Happy 2007! |
As with much of the mechanics of attraction it is most likely a HUGE combination of various factors throughout a person's life. Classical conditioning as a guy like the teddybear thing people have already suggested etc etc.
BUT... Since most people believe that your personality and preferences are set before the age of 5 my best bet is that the majority of things you look for in a prospective mate are set around that age (well probably the perameters of what you find attractive but I would think that the fine tuning happens through your experiences later in life). Combo nature and nuture sort of thing.
Cheers :) |
POLL: Big Hairy Man Dilemma? OK Scenario
You have been having cyber fun with a girl online, she is perfect in every way, imaginative, creative & oh so willing, you have been very happy with this for a month.
BUT : you discover independently she is in fact a "Big Hairy Man" (the horror) lol
What do you do ? remember only you know this no one else, and she/he is still by far the best girl you have ever met online.
over to you, lol |
| Four words: "call me post-op" |
Is there a rating system for gay hairy men? They call them bears, is like the hairiest men Kodiak bears and the not so big guys grizzly or something? |
Panda Bears are Asian guys..
Black Bears are black guys
Koala Bears are aussies
Gummy Bears have stds
Cubs are generally younger |
I'm being overpowered by a big, hairy man? any suggestions? |
Santa ?
Cheers
-Will |